Where do we go? What are we supposed to do when things do not work out the way we would like them to? Some people say that if things don’t work out, they were not meant to be I am not really sure if that is the complete truth. I do however, think that when we lose someone, something or even if you find yourself in a bad relationship once you find your way through things they do make you stronger.
Life is really about learning, there is not really a right or wrong approach to how we perceive things likethis, as people are all individuals, each person has their own way of coping. True, sometimes the way is destructive to them or others around them.
The past does shape you, many people say they try to rise above a bad or painful past. Sometimes there might be toxic people in your life. They may eitherintend to create drama for fun or truly do not realize the damage they cause to others. People usually try to avoid people like that, however, how are you supposed to overcome those toxic people when they are a family member, a close friend or even a coworker.
There are those in life who belittle, judge or even mislead you. They try to hold you back either because they were unsuccessful in their life, or even with good intentions, You cannot really rely on anyone else to make those decisions, it is how you perceive yourself. You cannot please everyone in life you must learn to live your own life not let others run it or try to run it for you. It can be difficult yet you can overcome those issues, it takes time, persistence, sometimes patience, gumption and believing in yourself.